When you think of adoption, what comes to mind? If you’ve seen older movies, you might envision a woman anonymously placing a baby on someone’s doorstep. However, modern adoptions couldn’t be more different!
While adoption can be emotionally difficult, it’s a selfless choice that gives your child a future. And you have complete control over the process.
How Does Adoption Work?
When you choose adoption, you will work with an adoption counselor or attorney to craft an adoption plan. The adoption plan is a customizable document outlining your goals and desires.
The three main types of adoption plans include:
- Open Adoption: Most adoptions today are open. And like the name suggests, this is the most open option. When you choose an open adoption, this means that you want to have open communication and potentially a relationship with the adoptive family and child. This type of plan also gives you the flexibility to choose what kind of communication you prefer and how often (for example, over the phone, in-person, etc.).
- Semi-Open Adoption: Semi-open adoption is similar to open adoption, but all communication is mediated by a third party (like the adoption agency or attorney). This helps protect your identifying information.
- Closed Adoption: Closed adoptions are rare today. With closed adoption, you and the adoptive family remain anonymous, which means you won’t know anything about each other. This might be the right choice for you if you prefer not to know the adoptive family or child.
What Details Can I Choose with Adoption?
You are in control of the life you want for your child when you choose adoption. Do you want your child to have lots of siblings and a big family? Do you want them to grow up in the country or the city? Is a religious upbringing important to you? You get to decide all of this and more when you choose the adoptive family.
Most adoption agencies will allow you to review adoptive family profiles to decide what adoptive family is right for your child.
We’re Here for You
Navigating your pregnancy options can feel overwhelming, but you’re not alone in this. At HopePlace Berryville, we’re here for you.
If you’re considering adoption, we can refer you to reputable adoption agencies in the area. We’re also here to walk you through your other options and ensure all your questions are answered.
Contact us today to schedule a free, confidential appointment.